Today is our birthday: but no one blesses us, why? 

I’m sorry to hear that no one is blessing you and your birthday is not being acknowledged. It can be disheartening and confusing when the people around us fail to express their well wishes on such a special occasion. While I may not have all the details about your specific situation, I can offer some possible reasons for this.

Lack of Awareness: Sometimes, people may not be aware that it is your birthday. With busy lives and numerous commitments, it’s possible that your loved ones simply overlooked the date or forgot to extend their wishes. It doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care about you; it might just be an unintentional oversight.

Communication Gap: It’s possible that there may be a breakdown in communication, leading to a lack of birthday greetings. If you haven’t explicitly informed others about your birthday or expressed your expectations, they may not realize the significance of the day to you. Openly sharing your feelings and desires regarding your birthday celebrations can help address this issue.

Different Priorities: People have different priorities and may have various reasons for not acknowledging your birthday. They might be preoccupied with personal or professional matters, facing their own challenges, or simply not placing a high emphasis on birthdays. It’s important to remember that their actions or lack thereof are not a reflection of your worth.

Disconnection or Distance: In some cases, relationships may have become strained or distant over time, leading to a lack of acknowledgment on your birthday. It can be challenging and hurtful when those closest to us don’t show the expected support or affection. If this is the case, it may be beneficial to have open and honest conversations to address any underlying issues and work towards rebuilding connections.

Cultural or Personal Beliefs: Depending on cultural or personal beliefs, some individuals may not place as much importance on birthdays or have different ways of expressing their well wishes. It’s possible that they may show their care and affection in other ways throughout the year.

While it can be disappointing when others don’t bless us on our birthday, it’s important to remember that your worth and value are not dependent on external validation. Take this opportunity to celebrate yourself and engage in activities that bring you joy. Treat yourself with kindness and surround yourself with those who appreciate and support you.

If you’re feeling particularly hurt or lonely, consider reaching out to friends, family, or support networks who may be able to provide the companionship and understanding you seek. Remember that birthdays are a time for self-reflection, growth, and self-love.

Happy birthday to you and anyone else celebrating today. Although it may not be the celebratory experience you envisioned, I hope that you can find moments of happiness and peace in your day.